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“I’ll Have a Cheeseburger, Hold the Feelings”

June 17, 2017

 

Have you ever buried a bad day under an entire McCain Deep and Delicious cake, right out of the tray? Does the pizza delivery guy know you by name and even sends you birthday cards?

 

If so, you might be an emotional eater! But don’t worry. You may be downing that entire bag of Chips Ahoy by yourself, but you are definitely not alone!

 

Chances are that as a kid you were rewarded with ice cream for bringing home a good report card, denied dessert if you misbehaved, or got a lollipop from the doctor after getting a shot. Maybe you weren’t allowed to leave the dinner table until you finished your plate, hungry or not.

 

Things like that were pretty common back in the day (and still are). And if I’m being honest, I’d probably give a crying child a lollipop too. It’s almost a reflex!

 

Unfortunately, these practices often lead to negative food associations and desensitize us to hunger cues. The result is that we eat when we’re bored, we eat to celebrate, we eat because we cried at work and want to comfort ourselves with a tub of Chunky Monkey topped with whip cream… and chocolate syrup… and sprinkles… and Doritos? Whatever works!

 

The point is, it’s really common, most of us do it (even me!) and it’s an association we need to stop because it can derail our health goals and doesn’t actually make us feel much better.

 

I’ll be honest with you. This is a hard one to break. If food has been used almost your entire life to reward, soothe and even discipline, it becomes a deeply entrenched habit.

 

You need to replace the habit with something else that truly makes you feel good.

 

And preparation is key! Make a list of non-food things that make you feel amazing. Aim for at least 10 things. Things like:

 

  • Take a long, hot bath

  • Do your nails

  • Play a video game

  • Watch your favourite show

  • Call a friend

  • Get a massage

  • Take a walk or bike ride

  • Knit

  • Read

  • Join a book club

  • Get a hobby car and rebuild the engine from scratch

  • Do a face mask (bonus: it’s really hard to eat with one of those on!)

  • Watch cat videos

  • Make cat videos

  • Get into photography

  • Organize a closet or junk drawer

  • Colour (Adult colouring books anyone?)

  • Listen to a podcast

  • Calligraphy, embroidery or cross stitch

  • Write an actual, pen and paper letter to someone

  • Take an online course

  • Do a jigsaw puzzle

  • Invest?

  • Sketch, draw or paint

  • Meditate

  • Try a YouTube makeup tutorial

  • Plan a DIY project

  • Listen to music

  • Play music

  • Dance in your underwear

  • Rage clean (at least it’s productive)

  • Rage box!

  • I guess… jogging… if you want.

 

Think of things you really and truly enjoy. Something that makes you feel really good to do, either because it’s fun, rewarding or give you a sense of accomplishment.

 

The next time you want chocolate, or pizza, or a Big Mac Trio with chicken nuggets and a McFlurry, really think about whether you actually want it, or if you’re craving it just to fill a void.

 

If you really do want it, it’s ok to treat yourself (occasionally).

 

If it’s all about that void, go for your list. Push yourself to try that first.

 

Unhealthy habits are hard enough to break. If you try to quit cold turkey, the cravings can get even more intense. Breaking a habit by replacing it with something you really enjoy makes it so much easier.

 

Soon enough, food won’t be your security blanket anymore! When you do treat yourself, you’ll enjoy the food so much more and even be satisfied with less of it because you’ll just be eating a food you like, not trying to fix that time Brenda gave you the side eye during your presentation (keep it to yourself, Brenda!).

 

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